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Rob Henderson's personal blog at robkhenderson.com covers culture and philosophy. Since 2021, 38 different Hacker News readers have linked it 121 times, most often “I Read: Non-secrets for voracious reading”. It is still writing: the last post was on 2026-11-01, and you can follow it by feed.

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121mentions?
2recommend?
38HN people?
2021–2026first – last linked?
Links on Hacker News per year · peak 49 in 2024

Too few sampled comments (8) to say how often HN recommends it.?

Why HN links it

HN commenters link Rob Henderson's posts on status games, social signalling and psychology, including the Marshmallow Test and imitating high-status people. One commenter credits him with coining 'luxury beliefs'.

Recommended for · 2 comments
Called a 'big fan' pick and said to offer 'deep insights in human psychology' from an unusual background.

Summarised by Claude from a sample of 8 HN comments that link here. Each comment is marked recommending, critical or neutral (citing without judging); how this works.

Human nature, psychology, social class, luxury beliefs, and more. Click to read Rob Henderson's Newsletter, a Substack publication with tens of thousands of subscribers.

Most-linked posts?

  1. I Read: Non-secrets for voracious reading
    3 people · 3 mentions · first linked 2023-11-05
  2. Tony Soprano and the Jungian Death Mother (2023)
    3 people · 3 mentions · first linked 2023-07-02
  3. The Machiavellian Maze
    2 people · 3 mentions · first linked 2023-12-10
  4. Killing a Bad Strategy Before It Kills You
    2 people · 2 mentions · first linked 2025-02-09
  5. Sometimes Money Can Destroy You Faster Than Poverty
    2 people · 2 mentions · first linked 2025-03-16
  6. Why Dumb Ideas Capture Smart and Successful People
    2 people · 2 mentions · first linked 2023-11-19
  7. America's Future Leaders Are Learning to Become Grifters
    2 people · 2 mentions · first linked 2026-02-15
  8. Despite What They Say, Elite Colleges Don't Promote Equity
    2 people · 2 mentions · first linked 2023-08-06
  9. Parental Selection in Human Evolution
    2 people · 2 mentions · first linked 2023-08-13
  10. America's Lost Boys and Me
    2 people · 2 mentions · first linked 2024-02-11

What Hacker News says?

  1. That’s not what the twin studies have shown. It’s not only the most extreme cases, it’s anything short of the very good circumstances. For example, the stable homes families have to prove they have to adopt. Cyril-f “twin”. https://www.robkhenderson.com/p/no-one-expects-young-men-to-...

    Comment linking /p/no-one-expects-young-men-to-do-anything

    on “The Marshmallow Test does not reliably predict adult functioning”
  2. Submitted No one expects young men to do anything and they respond by doing nothing (2022) as a story · 234 points

    HN discussion
  3. I would argue that people in academia or other tightly coupled bubbles where your career and thus well-being are far more reliant on how your peers evaluate you (especially in humanities where peer reviews are nearly the sole factor of success) is far more tribalist than a typical blue-collar or office environment. https://www.robkhenderson.com/p/how-dumb-ideas-capture-smart...

    Comment linking /p/how-dumb-ideas-capture-smart-and

    on “Maybe Bluesky has "won"”
  4. Submitted The question of poverty vs. instability as a story · 111 points

    HN discussion
  5. Be wary of imitating high status people who can afford to counter signal. https://www.robkhenderson.com/p/the-perils-of-imitating-high...

    Comment linking /p/the-perils-of-imitating-high-status

    on “The Moat of Low Status”
  6. Submitted Friendship and Social Fitness as a story · 81 points

    HN discussion
  7. The OP has a useful framing of status being attributed in verticals but we'll still (illogically) struggle with this logic. Inwardly we'll compare the status of a doctor, lawyer, or software engineer vs. our profession like a game of Top Trumps. Status games are fundamental evolutionary behaviours however much we want to believe otherwise. Here are a couple of relevant pull quotes from https://www.robkhenderson.com/…

    Comment linking /p/what-is-social-status

    on “The Economics of Status (2006)”
  8. Submitted Dating, education, and sex ratios as a story · 74 points

    HN discussion
  9. jger15 · 2023-06-16Recommends
    big fan of the below: -Bookbear Express: https://ava.substack.com/ -Cedric Chin (not a Substack): https://commoncog.com/ -Henrik Karlsson: https://escapingflatland.substack.com/ -Rob Henderson: https://www.robkhenderson.com/ -Robin Hanson: https://www.overcomingbias.com/

    Comment linking /

    on “Ask HN: Which substacks do you read as soon as it hits your inbox?”
  10. Submitted The Distinctiveness of Human Aggression (2022) as a story · 30 points

    HN discussion
  11. bkohlmann · 2023-06-16Recommends
    Rob Henderson - deep insights in human psychology from the Lens of an ivy-league educated academic who grew up as an impoverished foster kid. Also coined the term “luxury beliefs” https://www.robkhenderson.com/

    Comment linking /

    on “Ask HN: Which substacks do you read as soon as it hits your inbox?”
  12. Submitted Experts and Elites Play Fundamentally Different Games as a story · 27 points

    HN discussion
  13. bad link, fixed: https://www.robkhenderson.com/p/weaponizing-anger-is-a-usefu...

    Comment linking /p/weaponizing-anger-is-a-useful-political

    on “Weaponizing Anger Is a Useful Political Strategy”
  14. Submitted How To Choose A Romantic Partner: What psychology tells us as a story · 15 points

    HN discussion
  15. See also: Be Wary of Imitating High-Status People Who Can Afford to Countersignal https://www.robkhenderson.com/p/the-perils-of-imitating-high...

    Comment linking /p/the-perils-of-imitating-high-status

    on “a thread”
  16. Submitted The Machiavellian Maze as a story · 14 points

    HN discussion
  17. Submitted Two-Parent Families Are More Important Than College as a story · 13 points

    HN discussion
  18. Submitted Sometimes Money Can Destroy You Faster Than Poverty as a story · 12 points

    HN discussion
  19. Submitted America's Future Leaders Are Learning to Become Grifters as a story · 7 points

    HN discussion
  20. Submitted It's Time to Stop Blaming Misinformation for Cynicism and Mistrust as a story · 7 points

    HN discussion
  21. Submitted Tony Soprano and the Jungian Death Mother (2023) as a story · 7 points

    HN discussion
  22. Submitted Luxury Beliefs Are Status Symbols as a story · 7 points

    HN discussion
  23. Submitted Being a Writer in the Era of Influencer as a story · 6 points

    HN discussion
  24. Submitted I've Learned That Olive Garden Is Not Impressive to a Lot of People as a story · 6 points

    HN discussion
  25. Submitted Orwell in the Gutter as a story · 6 points

    HN discussion
  26. Submitted How the luxury beliefs of an educated elite erode society as a story · 6 points

    HN discussion
  27. Submitted Without Belief in a God, but Never Without Belief in a Devil as a story · 6 points

    HN discussion
  28. Submitted Improving Character Is Easier Than Improving IQ as a story · 5 points

    HN discussion
  29. Submitted You Don't Want to Learn Everything the Hard Way as a story · 5 points

    HN discussion
  30. Submitted Erotic Plasticity and Male Resentment as a story · 4 points

    HN discussion

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